sometimes..things just happen, out of our control..
& we can't figure out why it happened...
my uncle left us on 20th Feb, just 1 day b4 my 1 yr ROM anniversary...
last year he was still well & all when he attended my ROM..
i juz can't believe dat he's gone liddat...
he was a very kind and humorous guy with a big heart..
he was also a great family man..look at him bringing us out to play...
but cancer juz took him away from all of us..
the doc told us he had 2-3 more months last Sun..
then dere was sudden drop in his heart rate & he left 2 days later..
we haven't had a chance to travel together as 1 big family..
dat was one of his wishes... =(
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been really long since i last blogged..
no time is juz an excuse..every day im given 24hrs..
never a second less, its how i use my time..
obviously, alot of tings happened...
i attended 2 weddings last month...Alvin's & Tracy's...
was oso supposed to attend Cydney's wedding..
but dat day received a call dat my uncle is in critical condition...
it was a very shocking call dat send my mind blank...
i cldn't believe my ears dat my uncle may leave us anytime...
in the cab i couldn't hold my tears..memories flash back...
this uncle of mine doted my younger bro & me alot..
even after he had his own 2 kids..the 4 of us were pretty close back den..
unstoppable tears & time of worries with sadness..
but i thank God for the miracle..my uncle is actually better...
doc said he had low chance of gaining consciousness..
but he proved it wrong..he could now tok & eat..
however, the cancer cells are still in him..his liver is still damaged..
vulnerable to infection..he is still weak in movements/body.etc..
regardless, its really a miracle dat God has worked..
jumping out of the reality on daily happenings, alot of thots in mind..
it really cost nothing to say things...
so often pple say alot of tings, whether they mean it or not..
"说说而已, 又不会死" or "说而已嘛, 又不用给钱"..
an interesting fren told me to rem this advice:
"说的人没错, 听的人也没错, 是相信的人才有错"..
he didn't explain why is the fault on the one who believed..
i build my own explanation...
if there's no belief, there wun b hurt/disappointment/anger when the
words r juz empty saying...
如果是一耳进一耳出, 而不是把听的话当真, 放在心上..
den, i guess it would not matter much...
even when dat "下个礼拜" never cum to pass...
or when so many pple haf been to the places you were supposed to be brought to...
or when certain event is being missed & forgotten.etc..
就因为是相信的人的错, 所以说的人就可以理直气壮地发脾气吗..?
off the topic...
anyway, i almost forgotten laz month i celebrated my bday..
i actually didn't blog about it...
the next post i guess..so tired now.........
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August is cuming to an end & i haf not been discipline to blog..
but sumtimes i wondered if i will really read back wat i wrote...
i really haf to agree that time flies...
my younger bro has finally went to serve NS..having his BMT @ Tekong..
as requested, my mum & me had "farewell dinner" wif him b4 he booked in..
we took polaroid shots for him to bring to camp..oreadi posted in FB...
this is my favourite shot, so shall post it here too... =)
gonna skip on the movies i haf watched..
cos i haf really caught quite a no of movies since the last post..
but i gotta mentioned that The Bourne Legacy was disappointing..
neway dere was dis 1 day dat my younger bro & me were really pissed wif sum1..
our frenz who know wat is actually going on were oso feeling the anger..
all responded wif awful comments on her..
seriously, dun judge unless u really walked the path the person went thru...
putting pple down without finding out the truth..
its juz pure excuse to say dere is misunderstandin cos she heard it from a 3rd party..
if there's no prejudice in her, wld she jump so quickly to throw in negative judgement?..
must it be dat every single ting i do i gotta announce to the world?..
& no apologies after the whole incident..how upright/good can the person be..?!
ok...off to other happier tings..
had a post-dated bday dinner for Jenelle wif Gina & Bao Yun the other day..
nice catch-up since im no longer working wif them...
we were all laughing how each of us will becum aunties..
& our future topics will be which supermarket sells cheaper groceries...lolz..
den out of fun, went to join the H2O Ultimate Challenge..
there were Jenelle, her Eric, Gina, Jac, Bao Yun, Chris, Yap & me playing..
Jesreel came to support us & tk pics...
i actually overslept dat day but sumhow still manage to participate..
thanks to Stephanie who was working at the event..
surprisingly, i was the 3rd last person to be out among our group..lolz..
i lasted btn 16 - 17 min which i thot i would juz last 5 min under the hot sun...
oso muz thank Jenelle & her Eric for helping me to come up wif my pose..
1 last ting..Eric & me went for our free indoor photo-shoot @ Sattine laz mth.. =)
it was fun but tiring..from ard 12+ to 6pm if i rem correctly..
great service from Kent, one of the designers dere who happened to serve me..
from choosing my gowns to doing my make-up & hair..
he has really been very frenly, professional & nice..
he advised me on easier way to remove my make-up & hair spray..
oso shared his views and pointers on wedding photo-shoots..
the ting is, this is a free lucky draw won & he knew i had my own bridal package..
thumbs up for him..!
neway, our photos are ready, but we haf yet to fix an appt to choose them..
hope they turn out great..! but will be so tempted to buy more pics... =b
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